LGBT people can be in messy relationships where there is screaming, crying, and angry nights.
LGBT people can hate their exes and be in toxic and/or abusive relationships.
LGBT people are people.
Having a messy breakup, hating your ex, etc. isn’t some “hetero bullshit uwu”. It’s people bullshit. People can get angry, petty, jealous, etc. and LGBT people are no different.
We are human. We make mistakes. Our lives aren’t perfect. Our relationships are not always perfect.
And there is nothing wrong with that.
Cause it’s pride month this is relevant.
Leave abusive, toxic, etc. relationships. It isn’t “heterosexual bullshit” to leave a toxic relationship or have a messy breakup. If a relationship ain’t working don’t make yourself stay because ya gay.
“How would you feel if LESBIANS STARTED CALLING THEMSELVES BI???? huh???? HUH??????”
…..I would feel nothing, because if someone finds it safer and easier to let people believe they are bisexual, or ‘bi’ is easier for them in some way, great. I’m happy for them and I don’t mind at all
except that would never happen because bisexuals constantly have to explain themselves to fucking everyone, including you apparently
one thing people without depression don’t understand is sometimes you’re depressed and you just need to ride it out
sometimes you need to take a bath in the dark, listen to some sad music, cry into your pillow, etc.
sometimes greeting our depression with platitudes or aggressively positive energy is not the right way to go- and may even make us feel worse. sometimes we just need time and love.
it’s okay for people without depression to reblog this!
just to elaborate on this for those who may be confused, you know when you’re asleep and someone bursts in like “WAKE UP!! WAKE UP!! WAKEY WAKEY EGGS AND BAKEY!!! GOOD MORNING SLEEPING BEAUTY!!!!” and you’re like… hold the FUCK up i just woke up, tone it down? that’s what it’s like when you are depressed and people are aggressively positive
Actress Loan Tran speaks up for the first time after leaving social media because of the online hate she recieved in this piece she wrote for New York Times.
Stephenie Meyer took a 360 turn with Jacob’s personality and character when he became a love interest. And no matter how many times people fight me on it, Jacob’s original and true personality is not the one Stephenie gave him. The man I love would never have been so manipulative and greedy and forceful.
Sure, the transformation into a wolf brings on extreme aggression but it never made the others as toxic as he became.
Jacob Black’s character development was completely fucked over. And he never deserved that bullshit.
the older i get the more i realize what it meant for lily and james potter to die at 21. when you’re 11 and you’re reading the books, watching the films, 21 feels ancient. it did to me. even the actors they picked looked like they were in their thirties, because actual 21 year olds standing next to harry in the mirror would have been an excruciating sight i think. actual 21 year olds lined up in the photo sirius shows harry would have been horrible to see. they weren’t adults. i look at 21 year olds now and most of them are still teenagers. and i’m so sad because you know harry turns 21 and then 22 and then 28 and 29 and realizes how terribly young his parents were, how brave they were, how exceptional they were, GOD I’M SAD IM GETTING A BEER
I hate that I cry when I’m frustrated. Like you haven’t won. You haven’t hurt my feelings. I’m just so fed up with your bullshit that my body needs to have a physical release or my head will explode.
As a fanfiction writer, I often find that the stuff I write that I absolutely love and am most proud of is often overlooked, while the stuff that I force out and think is absolute garbage gets praise… does this happen to everyone else or just me??
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